I almost didn’t show up for this….
I almost didn’t show up for this….
She extended her delicate arm, decorated with richly colored tattoos, and took the little pink gift bag.
“What’s this for?” she asked leaning away from her customer.
“Just a little Valentine, to let you know you are loved” we replied briefly, remaining considerate of the fact that she was with a client. She wanted to know more. “We are a support group for women the business. Some of us have been in it too and we just want to let you know we are here for you.”
She tossed back a shot of tequila and placed a lime in her mouth. “You know what. I’m gonna keep your card. I know I’m going to need it someday.” She held my gaze for a moment and I knew she meant it. The customer turned to order more drinks as she peered into her gift bag. Her eyes welled with tears. “Okay…I can’t cry now cuz I’m still working, but I am going to call you one day.”
As we hugged and parted ways, I couldn’t help but think I almost didn’t show up for this…I almost didn’t show up for her.
It had been one of those days. A minor construction mishap at the new office that set us back a week. Holiday traffic. Rain. Then, as our team was getting ready to leave for our outreach, we realized that the only person who had the keys to the closet where our gift bags are stored wasn’t there. She was on the other side of town…on the other side of the traffic and the rain. In nearly 8 years, we have never called off an outreach. Rain or shine, we show up. But as it was nearing 9pm with 12 clubs on our Hollywood route and no gift bags, I thought, maybe we just shouldn’t go tonight. The team could probably use a night off. Right?
As soon as the thought crossed my mind, I realized that the challenges we were facing were probably all the more reason we SHOULD go. So the key-holder braved the rain and traffic while the team waited patient and hopeful—knowing it would be a night worth the minor inconvenience because the women we are reaching are worth the extra time and effort.
I have been reading Acts lately and following the story of how Paul felt so compelled to go to Jerusalem. Everyone and their mother was telling Paul not to go there. Warning him, begging him. But Paul was convinced that he had to show up.
He didn’t know what would happen when he got there, but the one thing he knew was that it was his job to tell the people in Jerusalem about the “incredibly extravagant generosity of God” (Acts 20:24). And when his well-meaning friends tried to convince him again, he made a powerful statement, “You’re looking at this backward. The issue in Jerusalem is not what they do to me, whether arrest or murder, but what the Master Jesus does through my obedience. Can’t you see that?” (Acts 21:13).
There is a bigger picture. Paul knew that. Our obedience means something. Someone else’s life course is attached to our willingness to show up.
Some people think we shouldn’t be showing up at strip clubs and porn conventions. They warn of the dangers awaiting us there. But we are compelled. And if there is one thing we know, it is that we must tell them about the incredibly extravagant generosity of God.
Thankfully in Los Angeles in 2011, we aren’t facing the kind of challenges the early and persecuted churches have faced. A little traffic and rain are minor snags in the scheme of things. But the truth is, obedience still costs us something. And I am convinced that the people who are impacted by our choices are worth it.
Love, Harmony & The Treasures Team

Great message…but the image of her skin and sexiness could have been kept out. She could have been holding a sign that said the same thing and the point would be less provocative looking. Just saying is all. My outreach to teen girls is one of “Worth”….the same scripture from Proverbs 31. Modesty and covering one’s body is still feminine and should be cherished. Let us also not forget that scripture tells us Not to throw our pearls before swine.
In Christ..
K
Hey Harmony,
Thank you for posting this and the ministry you guys have there. Meet you guys quite a long time ago when we were still doing onetruth and then through the promotions crew.
Greetings from Ecuador.
juan
I found your ministry because my husband introduced me to Pigeon John’s music — one of his songs was played at our wedding :} So amazing Harmony — thank you to the bottom of my heart for do this for women, for showing up. What you are doing for God is absolutely wonderful!
I love that picture you used for the post – I have used it to for various ‘True love waits’ and Chayil celebrations I’ve done for girls. I don’t think the picture would have the same affect if she was just holding a sign in front of her.
The picture featured in this blog was on the front of the postcard I used to write notes to the girls at the club I used to work at the night I had the idea to start Treasures in 2003. I love it and it is very meaningful to me:)
Picture is awesome as well as the post. Very well written.
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After reading your book I always wondered what the postcard looked like, and now I know!!!! It is beautiful and I’m thinking of getting the same words tattooed on me.
I don’t think Kristine should use the same mindset of marketing for adult dancers as teen girls. Let’s be realistic in the ways we can reach and bless people.
Kristine, If you’re not comfortable with seeing a womans bare back please reassure us that you spend no time outdoors, on the beach or swimming…Harmony is doing AMAZING work and does not need criticism thrown at her ESPECIALLY after her blog. Why do you NOT have a problem with her team entering a strip club but such an issue with a graphic that is in no way meant to be offensive??? It’s a beautiful picture that has changed thousands of lives and that’s because of GOD. Don’t allow the enemy to kill, steal and destroy her work and story because you can’t handle a bare back.
tears rolling over my cheeks, gasps in heart-felt awe, shortness of breath and sitting on the edge of my seat.. I love what devotion you all have to help, to send this message of hope, to share with one more person believing they are alone -finding an offering of peace, of love, of reward, of hope, of connection. You’ve planted a seed and opened the door, Amen. Thank you Harmony, my prayers are they come through that door <3
I absolutely love that you guys made your own valentines. So awesome that you got to show what true love is on valentines day as well.
the picture needs to be there, it bothers me when other people leave comments about how they think things need to be, its not there blog nor there story, and they do not know that God may be using that picture to witness to even just one! amazing…